Sex is Better with Men Over 50! One Woman Explains Why She Prefers Older Guys

Written by: Keith G. Tolman
Published 06/17/2015
Updated: 06/17/2015

Young men have rippling muscles, firm abs, and tight butts. But they don’t typically last long in bed. Younger men also tend to be more focused on their own pleasure. That’s why sex with younger men isn’t always as good as it seems. The emphasis tends to be on performance, not pleasure.

Sex can be so much better for you. All you have to do is have sex with a man older than 50. Men in their 50s, 60s, 70s, and even 80s are superior lovers for 3 major reasons. For starters, they are not typically in a hurry. Secondly, they will put your pleasure first. Thirdly, they know that great sex doesn’t even have to include intercourse. They know that there’s more than one way to experience sexual pleasure.

The things you’ve heard about sex after 50 probably aren’t true. People say that older men can’t get erections. They say that older men are incapable of sustained intercourse. You’ve probably also heard that older men aren’t interested in sex. None of those things are true.

Older men are definitely still interested in having sexual experiences with their partners. Many older men don’t need erectile dysfunction medications to get an erection. In fact, they don’t even need an erection to experience sexual pleasure. When you have an older lover, intercourse is just one option on the menu. Older men have the patience needed to fully enjoy a variety of sexual experiences.

It’s true that men change physically as they age. It can take longer for older men to get an erection. He may never get as hard as he was when he was in his 20s. In fact, he may not even ejaculate every time he gets an erection. But there’s nothing wrong with that. It doesn’t make him less of a man. Physical changes tend to lead to creative thinking in the bedroom. Older men take the time to figure out what feels good.

While it’s true that every man seems to want a big erection, older men perceive sexual experiences differently than younger men. When you understand that you can pleasure a woman without an erection, you realize that erections aren’t that important. Most women agree that hard erections take second place to overall sexual pleasure.

However, a funny thing happens when men stop focusing on erections and intercourse. A firm erection will appear out of nowhere! Without all that pressure, it’s easier to become fully aroused. Men and women can finally see themselves as equal partners in a creative escapade. Creativity and curiosity can lead to all kinds of erotic adventures for couples.

Women just want to take the time to enjoy the overall experience. You can engage in oral sex, use sex toys, or wear sexy outfits. The possibilities are endless when you use your imagination. That’s where older men excel. Younger men are sexy to look at, but older men are simply better in the bedroom.