Claire Marie Carson
Updated: 03/20/2025
Published: 03/20/2025
I have always been the person people turn to when they have questions they're too afraid to ask out loud. From an early age, I was the friend who could talk about sex—the real, raw, unfiltered details—without flinching. Whether it was about technique, pleasure, or navigating intimacy, I made the uncomfortable feel easy and the taboo feel normal.
That natural comfort with sexuality, combined with my background as a nurse and relationship coach, has made me a trusted guide in the world of intimacy, sex, and relationships. I don't sugarcoat or judge—I teach, empower, and transform the way people experience connection.
But my expertise isn't just professional—it's deeply personal.
I know what it feels like to give my power away in relationships. I've been in partnerships where I struggled to express my needs, stand my ground, and navigate conflict. I silenced myself. I prioritized others. I didn't yet have the skills to advocate for my own desires—or even recognize how much I was sacrificing.
That experience changed everything.
Determined to reclaim myself, I sought out training in emotional empowerment, conflict resolution, and radical self-expression. I immersed myself in programs that taught me how to own my desires, set boundaries without fear, and have the conversations most people avoid.
Now, through Illuminated Intimacy, I help others do the same.
I specialize in the dark shades of intimacy—power dynamics, kink, domination, submission, and the psychology of desire. I help men move beyond performance and into true erotic confidence, guiding them to be present, powerful, and emotionally attuned lovers. I work with women and LGBTQ+ clients to break free from conditioning, claim their pleasure, and embrace their full sexual expression without shame.
Through my coaching, content, and product reviews with Edrugstore, I tackle the most common struggles people face in sex and relationships:
- Erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and loss of sensation—and how to bring pleasure back into the body.
- Why people lose desire in long-term relationships—and how to reignite it.
- How to handle conflict and tough conversations—without losing intimacy.
- How to move beyond shame and into sexual confidence.
My approach is bold, unfiltered, and deeply transformative. I don't believe in surface-level advice—I go straight to the core of what makes intimacy thrilling, sustainable, and deeply fulfilling.
Because intimacy isn't just about sex. It's about power. Self-awareness. Trust. Expression.
And whether you're here to learn how to be a better lover, explore the depths of your desires, or simply understand yourself on a whole new level—I'm the guide you didn't know you needed.
This is Illuminated Intimacy… Step into your power—your relationships will follow.